Yes, You Can Have It All

I can have it all?  Yes, you can!  Do you believe it?  Most people don’t and do you know why? Because they let other people determine what ALL is for them.  The truth is that only YOU can decide what ALL is.  It is your life.  It is a simple process, just not easy.  Why?  Because it takes time, time to think about yourself, time to think about your life, time to really understand this is not a dress rehearsal, this life is yours and you are in charge of you – what you want, what you will have and who you will become.

Heavy thoughts?  Yes, because it puts the responsibility of your life on your shoulders.  If we can go through life blaming others, our boss, our spouse, our kids, our parents – we never have to take the responsibility.  Once we accept we are responsible for who we are, where we go, what we do, a world of possibilities, wonder and excitement open up for us.

When I am working with a client for Success Coaching, we go through a process I will share with you today.  That process is C.S.I.—easy to remember, just think of the C.S.I. television show. They are investigating deaths about people they don’t know.  Recreating the lives and situations to find out what happened.  My theory is to use the C.S.I. formula to investigate and create your life NOW, now while you are alive.

We will begin with the C: C is for clarity.  Get really clear on what you want out of life in all seven areas of your life: Personal, Family, Spiritual, Health, Financial, Social and Career.

My suggestion is to go somewhere out of your current environment and take three to four hours, with no phone, no PDA, no computer and just write.  Write everything you want in life, where you want to go, what you want to do, who you want to become. Write anything that comes to your mind. No should of’s or needs to’s, just what you want. Remember no one will read this but you.

The results will be amazing! When was the last time you spent 3 to 4 hours just thinking about your life and what you what?  Most people will say never and the thought I want to leave you with is WHY?  This is your life, you are the only one who will never leave you, and you are the one who will decide what you what and can make the choices to make it happen.

Enjoy the experience.  In my next article we will discuss the S in the C.S.I formula.  Until then happy dreaming.